Saturday, 03 March 2007

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  Dear Dee,

  ok. so i know this wont apply to anyone or anything.. but, can you help me? ok there is this boy i have a crush on. we went out before but broke-up after 3 days because we hadn't known each other for over a week. its been 3 months now, and we are really good friends. here is a part of a convo from earlier today just to show you a little bit of how we are with each other, its a pretty typical convo for us.. his name is NATE. but, what i need help with is, i am thinking about asking him out..but i cant quite decide weather i think he likes me again or not..and im not sure how to ask him out.. please help

  -Morgann =]]

  Dear Morgan,

  To answer your first question, of course I can help you it's what I'm here for darling. So it sounds to me that you and Nate are pretty close and he seems like a really nice guy. The key to a situation like this is to play it cool. It sounds to me like he likes you but doesn't want to admit it in case you don't like him back. It's a typical scenario that the male species tends to avoid. Try to observe, very inconspicuously of course, how he acts around you compared to how he acts around other girls if you're having second thoughts about asking him out. I think you're doing well at dropping subtly hints. But remember dear he is male so you'll probably have to spell it out for him. All in all I say go for it. You've only got one life to live and what's the worst that could happen?

  -Love Dee

   

   

  
  i have too manyy problems that would take too long to tell you about them but one that just came up today was that my mother wants us to move because the rent is too high and we've been in the same placve for 8 years now, but i can't say that i don't want to move because she wont really listen because the money is important..and the rent is "killing her" i have been looking for a cheap place that we can move into and i can still stay at the high school i am in...i am a junior..so i dont want to leave...and i am a cheerleader and i have been one for my whole highschool career.. and i really want to graduate with my class...so i really need something to either convince my mom to listen to me or something...i mean dont get me wrong...i love her and we are pretty close.. but she just says she cant do it anymore and that she just wants a cheaper place....and she told me that she found one but in a not-so-good area... i dont want to move there...i hate this soo much...just help please...
  
  samantha Lindsey Dear Samantha,

  Wow that sounds hard, I don't know what's it's like to be in one place for a long time since my dad's in the army and we move all the time. Have you told her how much it means to you to graduate with your class? I'm sure that if she had a choice she wouldn't want to move either. I think it's a good idea to look for cheaper places to live in your area. Search search search! I think that's probably your best option since your mother is having trouble with the rent. Or find somewhere temporary to live like a small apartment. It's only one more year until you graduate, that's not to long. Have you tried open enrollment? That might work for you too, if you don't move to far away. I'd bring all this up with you mother at once so that she sees that you've really been thinking about it. I hope this helps you and I really hope things work out.

  
  

   

   

  Hello my name is AMW [it's a nickname]. I need some help. I have had a major crush on this guy for almost 3 years. I think he might know... but i'm not for sure. I used to think he liked me until he started dating other girls. from then on i've been totaly mum around him. we used to be really close friends, but now...we never even talk. i'm not a loud person, so there is no way i'm going to ask him out....no way no way. i just need help on how to get over him...or someway for him to notice me...or idk. i just need help please!

  -AMW

  Dear AMW,

  Wow that's some problem you have on your hands. I can understand this situation perfectly because I've been in one just like it recently. But let me tell you, do not handle it the way I did. I lost that friendly completely to the point where we're nearly enemies now. You really just have to think about what's more important to you; you're friendship with him or how much you really want to be with him. I think this also depends on how he acts towards you. Is he still nice and friendly to you even though he's dating other girls or is he subtly rubbing it in your face? Also if you think he knows that you like him isn't there a chance he just might like you back? Tons of guys try to make girls jealous by dating other girls. (It usually works.) I would start by trying to talk to him again, try to get back to the point where you were good friends and try to work up the courage to ask him out yourself. The worst he can do is say no, which isn't nearly as bad as pining over him without him knowing. But if you want to get over him then try hanging out with other friends and look for other amazing guys because you know what they say about all the fish in the sea. I don't know how old you are but I'm going to guess you're younger than thirty so I'm going to say you're to young to find "the one" so try no to stress about this guy too much. Relax, have fun and party while you still can.

  Love, Dee.

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